Have you ever had something happen, and think: Now WHY did I have to go through that? I’ve had that with many things. So many questions I have about life sometimes!
Like this, for example: I’ve had a good amount of jobs over the years. And each and every time I have left one, I think: What was the purpose of THAT? But with these jobs came many other things: like friends. Many of my closest friends are people I used to work with.
At one place in particular, I met two very sweet people – both are friends now. The place we all worked at had good people, but there were many things that just weren’t right. People didn’t treat each other well. People let their egos run amuk. They made it okay to gossip and treat certain folks like dirt. It just wasn’t a healthy place to work. You know? Like you’d come home from a day of that and somehow feel defeated.
Well I had enough one day and quit. And then, one of my other friends did. The other person left there kept praying for God to come into that office and make some changes! And you know what? He did. But not in the way she expected.
After several years there she found out her job was “eliminated.” However you want to put it, she was the one being let go. She wasn’t let go because of job performance or anything that would have made sense. Naturally, she was hurt and angry.
A few weeks ago I had dinner with her and she told me something amazing. I’m still blown away by it today. She said on her last day she was asked to say a few words (to say goodbye), and what she said instead was that these people weren’t the ones doing this to her, that her life was in God’s hands. For whatever reason, this is what He wanted for her and it was God she trusted.
After all that hurt and anger, she managed to turn the attention away from herself, away from these managers who thought they knew everything, and instead turn the focus to God. Even when I told her I found that incredible, she again turned the focus to God, and said He had given her the faith to do that. She knows God has something new and wonderful planned up His sleeve for her next, and even though “not knowing” is scary, she’s excited about this next step. All due to God.
It works that way so often. Yet, when we’re caught up in the details of life sometimes we forget who should get the focus.